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Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Worthy of Disintegration in 2011 (and possibly TMI)

Last year, I did a post on items in my running bag that I couldn't live without, that I had worn down to the nubbins, to the fray, and/or had stockpiled for 2010. In the spirit of that post, Worthy of Disintegration in 2010 (and possibly TMI), I thought it would be fun to continue the tradition. This year, however, instead of dissecting my running bag, I thought it would be more applicable to go through the items in my pregnancy bag, especially since I spent more of the year pregnant than running :) As is the tradition, products must have proven themselves to be worthy of disintegration, over-use, and/or unnatural attachment/superstition at some point in my pregnancy world. You may be looking for the perfect items to fill your own/someone you love's pregnancy survival kit at some point in 2011, and if so, may you or your someone special be filled with joy and health throughout this amazing journey! Without further adieu and in no particular order, I heart:
Exercise ball for sitting on. This SAVED my back and sacrum and feels SO good to stretch out, roll, bounce, and do yoga on. I was recently told to stop bouncing on it since I am now on bedrest, but I still stretch on it almost every night. LOVE this thing.
This book came highly recommended by the group of midwives I had the pleasure of knowing at NTC Point Loma (San Diego). It was written by a mother-daughter team, who "wrote [the] book as a travel guide on [the pregnancy] journey". That description was enough to sell me on this book instead of some of the other more popular choices. The authors consulted with a number of well-credentialed professionals and do a great job presenting and differentiating between scientific fact and opinion. I have loved every moment of it, especially the week-by-week descriptions.
I picked up Shiva Rea's basic prenatal yoga DVD from Target after I started having issues keeping my blood pressure down. Prior to increasing the number of days per week I did prenatal yoga, I was  fast-walking an hour + per day on the beach most days. My blood pressure did go back to normal in the second and third trimester, (until the last couple of weeks) which may have been coincidental. Either way, this was a very easy, very relaxing addition to daily preggo life, and I liked how they had 3 different women you could follow (one for each trimester).
Psyllium husk fiber! This stuff was actually on my running list too :) I guess it will be with me for life. There's nothing quite like the absorbing, cleansing, gentle nature of this product while your body is growing a baby! Make sure to drink plenty of water with it. I found that during the first trimester, it was a little hard to keep it, juice, cheerios, AND a prenatal vitamin down, so during weeks 9-14-ish, I had to wait a couple of hours between this and cheerios. Those are the things you figure out for yourself.    
Okay, so this one is kind of weird, but I had a MAJOR ant problem over the summer in San Diego after a series of major construction projects began in our condo complex. This stuff is made out of cinnamon , menthol, and eucalyptus oil. It was not only the ONLY thing that worked in my battle with the ants, it was pregnancy-safe! So, if you find yourself with an ant infestation during your pregnancy, I recommend you give this stuff a try.
Yes To Cucumbers! Cucumbers, Spirulina, sea minerals, and broccoli. Delicious ingredients mixed into an olive and avocado oil base, with a very light and cooling scent that will not gag you if you become extremely sensitive to smells, as I did. I remember initially using a cocoa butter lotion, but the smell of it made me so nauseous that I couldn't continue the cocoa butter tradition.  
My number one staple during this pregnancy has been fruit! Pineapple and lemon were big ones in the first trimester. Apples are amazing for fighting heartburn in the third trimester. Mango is strangely comforting. Prunes (and other dried fruit) are full of iron and loaded with fiber, sugar, and sweetness. I probably ate a diet of 60% fruit for the first several months. Later in the pregnancy, I did experience cravings for protein, but it is beyond me how people sit and eat a package of Oreos or gorge themselves on greasy food while pregnant. Alas, we are all snowflakes :)
On that note, and just so we are perfectly clear that I am no angel...I have to come clean about my Coke habit! There is NOTHING, and I mean nothing that even came close to fighting nausea like a few sips of icy-cold, cinnamony (I always think it tastes like cinnamon), lemony (and lemon) Coca Cola! This was not a daily habit, but this product was something that I am sure I would have DIED without during the first trimester. It honestly did not take much...just a few sips. I would not recommend drinking an entire 12 ounce can or even drinking it daily, but just know it's there if you need it, get to the point where you will do anything, and find ginger ale to be the biggest anti-nausea joke of all time :)
Faith and the ability to deal with change...Hopefully these 2 things dwell inside of you because while they are absolutely necessary, they are hard to find if you don't already posses them :) 

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Thanksgiving Begins

I have not been home to the Pacific Northwest for the Thanksgiving holiday in years, and this morning I even woke up to news of a small dusting of snow in the nearby town of Bellingham, WA! I am sure I will be much less excited about this as the winter season approaches with even more “dustings” and freezing temperatures, but for this native Washingtonian turned Californian, seasonal weather patterns are always exciting and strangely comforting. 
Scenes from the basement. Great-Grandmother's pastel work pre-dating WWII. 2010 The Finish Line
I can’t stop obsessing about taking my baby for walks in the snow once he’s born. He’ll be my little snow bunny! Looking forward to being active and mobile again soon, but in the mean time, I have been enjoying a productive period of rest and relaxation, difficult as that may be.
Common photo in image search for the Dust Bowl. Photographer unkown
I’ve spoken to several people recently who have mentioned that they have The Worst Hard Time on their reading list as well. While I usually find that whatever I am reading seems to come with impeccable timing for whatever I am to get from it, I highly recommend bumping it up on your list! I’ve loved Egan’s work ever since The Good Rain, and whether or not you agree with his environmental views and general distrust of government and mob mentality, you will find that he has a unique way of thickly layering illustrations of humanity, survival, and compassion on his historical-political essayist style. Beautiful work. I love it when writers are able to use contrasting imagery to make a point because you  well remember those points. Displays of desperation next to those of hope and integrity. The Worst Hard Time has accomplished this.

Whatever is going on in your life at this moment, I challenge you to proceed forward this Thanksgiving week with gratitude, forgiveness (of self and others), and with much joy. Many Blessings for a happy, humble holiday!    

Friday, November 12, 2010

On Bedrest and Being Banned from the Lysol

It's not that I am unable to relax without running and wine and yoga. I am relaxed, dammit! :) It's mainly that my whole body just starts feeling itchy and twitchy if I sit for very long in one position, then I start feeling like I can't breathe. It's just this innate need to move, pregnant or not. Hyperactive gene? Maybe. There is a whole wide world of fun to be had, sometimes in your own kitchen, sometimes on your own street, and sometimes, in the voices of the mountains or the desert that beckon to us all from time to time.    

Of all the people to be put on bedrest, this future momma is certainly not the best-ever candidate! :) The bottom line is my baby is as healthy and as off-the-charts-active as can be (as per the last 3 non-stress tests), but my blood pressure is suddenly high, so I'm grounded from running around, shopping, meeting people for brunch, cleaning, hiking, bouncing on my ball chair for hours a day while I write, and playing football with Nephew #1. Full-on double complete rainbow of the hardest thing ever: sitting still.

Last night, upon getting discharged from the latest hospital visit, the nurses were like, do you understand that if you do not behave, the next step is full-on bedrest where you can't even get up to take a shower?? Yes, I say, looking shameful. I hear you. There are definite dangers to high blood pressure, and I guess I figured that as long as my baby was okay, I was good to go, but you can actually have lasting damage from it if you're not careful. You can also have serious stuff like a stroke, if it gets too out of control.  

So, while my sweet baby boy stays safe in his happy place for just a little while longer, my goal is to 1) finish my latest 2 GREAT reads, The Worst Hard Time, by Timothy Egan and Cat's Eye, by Margaret Atwood; 2) finish my latest short story, The Troll; 3) catch up editing in my online critique group (BEST thing you can ever do to improve your skills as a writer, in my opinion, besides actually writing); 4) catch up reviewing/editing for writer friends who sent me their stories ages ago; and 5) actually calling people I owe calls to back on the real telephone!!! I know, it's insane. I am the worst friend ever! Don't get too excited...

Lastly, I plan on enjoying the amazing hospitality of my parents, who have banned me from the kitchen and from the Lysol. They are truly amazing people for putting up with me during this time. Between BAH and I, my son comes from a pretty long line of hyperactive and fun-loving kookballs :)

Monday, November 8, 2010

A Week of Inspiration

We've witnessed the most exquisite views of the Olympic Mountains during the last week, which sported a couple of beautifully clear fall days here on Camano Island. Every time I drive into town, I am jaw-droppingly humbled by the sight of their snow-capped peaks. Remember to breathe, I tell myself. And, for goodness' sake, keep a camera in the car!
Some amazing wildlife and nature photographers/artists live in Island County. This place is so full of inspiration and wonder, it is a miracle anyone can remember where they are going or what they are doing as they drive by these spectacular views! My son kicks and jumps in my belly. He's getting ready for our future excursions to these wondrous places. Maybe they will calm and envelop his heart the way they do my own? Either way, he will at least know they exist and that he never has to be needlessly confined to the house or the city if he doesn't want to be.    
This was a fun filled weekend as I worked on my ever-evolving author's website for my works of fiction, signed up for another writer's conference of the online/virtual format, was honored by a beautiful and sweet baby shower, and had the chance to meet up with an old friend for Sunday brunch. What a great way to end the week and celebrate the end of Daylight Savings in the great Pacific Northwest!
I loved the seahorse theme!
Cutest idea ever!
How is it that I know so many wonderfully creative people? I could not think of stuff like this to save my life :)
Me with the host of this beautiful gathering: my Mom's BFF and one of the sweetest people you will ever meet


















































Monday, November 1, 2010

Harvest of Smiles

I love vintage holiday cards! Hope you all had a fun and safe Halloween week.
We started things out by carving the most random pumpkins ever and roasting the seeds...
LTG and Brother #3 carving pumpkins from Schuh Farms, our local favorite
Brother #2 and Nephew #2 at one of the local pumpkin patches in Marysville, WA
We smiled a lot...and then smiled some more. Nephew #1 and Pumpkinhead
Grandma and Grandpa with baby bear, Nephew #2
My own little pumpkin...and finally a mama sporting one haircolor, au naturale!
And we prepared for the next phase...Brother #3 and Nephew #1 getting ready for basketball season
Many Blessings for a Bountiful November...Image from the web (photographer unknown, 2010)